What I can do

I am 43, blonde, fun, spontaneous, straight, loud, outgoing, daring, high maintenance, cautious, and a hard worker. All of this may sound as if I think I am something special; however, it is not mean't to be. Boundaries are necessary in everything we do in life or don't do. They determine goals, expected outcomes, provide assurance, define choices, and enable a person to decide what they will and will not do. Notice I did not say what another person will or will not do. I know people who are constantly trying to fit into someone's plan or agenda. I see nice, sincere people strung out from struggling to maintain a relationship that is only existing because they have buried their souls desire to keep the peace. Who am I? I know what my boundaries are. I know what I should or should not do. I do not need to tailspin through life because I cannot control other people. I need to know that I don't change what I believe in because people are confused as to where they stand. I can have a great time if with the right mix. I can be fine if by myself enjoying down time. I can sing, dance, hear the beauty of music, feel the music, keep my home in order, make quick decisions regarding a life, listen, talk, cook a meal, have compassion, concern, feel love, offer help, pull weeds, plant a flower, wash a dog, organize my cabinets, work, take care of my kids, and fall fast asleep at night while talking. I am far from perfect. I am a pain at times, but I love life and I love to love. Oh, I forgot to say I always spend too much money, but I seem to always have enough to share. What can I do? I can be me.