It's Friday , do you know what your kids have planned ?

The weekend is finally here . After the first few days of school , the social activities are going to start whirling and twirling again . New friends , new choices , new things to do and new places . Teenagers love to hang out with one another and that is a rite of passage . They like to gather and socialize , especially the ones driving a car now . I am all for having a good time and making high school memories , but I do want to offer some considerations for the weekends . Never assume the home where your child is going to hang out is supervised . Always ask . Always have the same conversation with your children about expectations should something not be the best situation . Have a code or password that can be sent in a text to you or stated in conversation that lets you know that your child isn't comfortable with what is happening . Know the exact location of where your child is supposed to be and don't be afraid to drive by to check or call the residence to see . Know your child's friends . Go to lunch with them all . Spend time listening to their stories . Know their parents . Don't be afraid to tell other parents your expectations of your children . It always helps to be informed , that can never be a bad thing whether the info is good or questionable . Write a contract of items that you have discussed with your child inregard to their safety . I always emphasize the safety factor with my childen . Know who you feel comfortable with your teenager riding with and who they are not allowed to ride with . Don't change their ride unless it is unsafe or they have called you . Be involved . Don't just talk to your teenagers about rules , talk to them about other stuff , first , before you jump on the rule thing . Teenagers are exremely smart . We parents had better be smarter . The most important of all is LOVE . Let your teenager know you cannot imaging life without them . Explain how your concerns are based on how much they mean to you . Try to look ahead for opportunities to spend quality time with your teenager . Don't wait for a crisis to occur to show they really matter . Look for the good and don't dwell on the bad . Don't be afraid to say yes or no but do your homework to show your answer . Remember each day is a priviledge and the weekends can be fun , safe and full of memories .