It's gonna be tough.

It's that time of year again. Young people getting ready to start college or young people heading back for another year of it. I sit here tonight, alone, that is, physically. My daughter has gone to tell her boyfriend since 7th grade goodbye. He is leaving for college tomorrow and since she will be in school, this is their last chance to say their words. My son leaves in two weeks. Change is such a wonderful, exhausting thing isn't it? My daughter's friend has been coming in and out of our doors for six years, when I asked my daughter what she will miss the most.....the random chances to see him. Random will no longer be apart of their relationship....their visits will be planned around his football, her school, distance and family. This time next year I will be getting both of my kids ready for college. So what great words of wisdom and comfort do I have to offer tonight? Well, for one... I am thankful to sad that my daughter's boyfriend is leaving for college...that means I like him, he is kind and respectful to my daughter and I think she has been good for him. Well, for two....I am glad to be around to experience these changes that cause a mother's heart to hurt for those she loves....there are many children who don't have their mom. Well, for third....I'm glad it makes me sad to think of my son returning to college in two weeks...that means he has been a joy to have home...not a problem. Well, for fourth...I am blessed to have a daughter who is such a special fairy duster....she loves with her whole heart...cares about other people's story...is loyal...and has made a difference in her fellow's life. And, for fifth....it's gonna be tough...there will be tears shed, already shed, over this new place called college..there will loneliness...emptiness at times...a longing for a random visit...it's gonna hurt. But, along the way...love can find a way to be more than distance or time away...and remembering why is what softens the toughness of a broken heart.